The Convention of the Ugly Truth

While marriage is a beautiful order sanctioned by God, it does come with its trials. One of these include sharing the bed with another person when you are both use to having your own queen bed! Another is realizing that, well, thats pretty much it. Being married is so lovely and Leo definitely is a joy to be with. The Lord truly blessed me. Insert Janine's *GAG* here. She says I only have 11 more months and then I am expected to be back to normal. Leo works like crazy and does school full time and still somehow figures out a way for us to spend a little bit of time with eachother everyday. I believe that he is buttering me up for the next 8 years that I will never see him, and then the rest of his working life in which I will only see the money he brings home. The children will all have engraved lockets which read "My Dad" with a picture of Leo so they remember what he looks like. Maybe he will just start doing what Janine's husband does. When she says he isn't as romantic he tells her that he used to woo her with chocolates and ballets, now he woos her with financial security.
Ladies....so, your man works ALOT, and he needs time to veg out at the end of the day, and every once in a while he goes to bed without cuddling you, SHUT UP! Would you rather he is always around, telling you what to buy for dinner, how you prepared it wrong, asking why his socks are still on the floor, while he sits on the bed reading a WWII novel? Be grateful that your husband believes in his role of a provider and a MAN and takes care of those financial needs. I know that I am!